Someone please help me?
Call me stupid for getting so depressed over a ‘best friend’ but seriously my life is hell. I’m treading on glass and I can’t do it anymore.
List of what my best friend does.
-She’d rather talk to a 16 year old boy than me, that she has seen once. She told me to delete him in case I liked him but made up and excuse saying in case he goes mad or something.
-She never starts conversations of.
-She never cares about me, if i’m ill or something bads happening she’ll just put ‘kk’ even my if my familys ill.
-She acts as if she hates m most of the time.
-She don’t like me hanging around with anyone put her.
-She goes in moods if i talk to my ex-bestfriend but she talks to her all the time.
-She’ll only doss out when she wants to.
-If i say ‘what you doing’ shes says ‘nothing!’ and dosen’t ask about me
-she writes status about me
the list goes on and i’m sick of it. Is it depressing me?
-I cry all the time.
-I don’t want to do anything
-I think about killing myself
Do you think she could have mental problems?
-One min shes happy the next shes moody.
-She makes up lies about as something as small as texting to saying shes dying and running away.
-her family suffer this.
I can’t take it no more. Its hard not to be her best friend because she is taking me on holiday next year for a week with her family. My mom has depression and she thinks i’m happy with her and I don’t want to worry my mom about falling out. Me and my ‘best friend’ have talked time and time again about how bad she treats me and it’s ok for a few days then goes back to normal.
How can I get this sorted. Please don’t just say talk to your mom about this. My mom is DEPRESSED and I don’t want to worry her… I know if she knew she was treating me bad then it would worry her more… but she dosen’t she thinks she treats me nicely. How can I start of the conversation to my mom and what can I say? Please please help?! i’m begging you, before I do something stupid. Also is there any websites where you can speak to someone about you problems online. Thanks
Geesh, I feel bad for you. Girls can be so caddy and rude. Your best friend does not sound like a best friend. I would bet that you can do much better and find new friends that cause you much less stress. Maybe you could talk to her or write her a letter before you go away with her. It might be isolating for you to address the issues while you are on the trip. You could also call a teen help line. They will likely have resources as I am guessing that these sort of social issues are a major reason for people calling them.
You really deserve a friend who treats you better. Going on holiday with her family will not make it any better so forget about the holiday. Just tell your friend that you’re really sick of the way she’s treating you and find some better friends. You deserve it. If your mum asks you can just shrug and say you grew apart, friends do that all the time.
well she doesn’t sound like much of a friend, I would move on from her, she is causing you too much grief. If you don’t want to worry your mum you could go talk to a councellor or something? I would find some other friends, do something to get away from her and make new friends. She isn’t worth all this trouble, you’ll be happier when she isn’t there I bet.
she needs counseling. I think she is not happy with her life, but she herself doesn’t know the reason. she needs help. and the only person who can help her is none but you. As her parents are also suffering the same, so you can talk to them about her behavior. don’t be depressed. she needs treatment.
I kinda have the same exact problem. I really enjoy having her as my best friend but she really acts like she doesn’t want to be my friend sometimes. Like whenever she see’s someone else when we’re like hanging out she be like lets go say hi and when we go she start talking to them and leaves me alone. I’m getting really tired of her but I don’t want to break up with her because of 2 reasons.
1- Sometimes she’s a really good friend but mostly when we’re alone and no one else is there.
2- I kinda have a hard time making friends.
So what I do is kinda treat her the same way. I do exactly what she does and she knows how it feels. It doesn’t seem like the best way but it’s better than breaking up with her and having no friends at all.
God girls are such bitches arent they? I’m a girl too by the way ahha! YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER. Seriously! SHE’S NOT WORTH IT! She is bitchy and spiteful and self centred and she doesn’t deserve to have a friend like you. Talk to your Dad or sibling or a trusted adult because you need to get it sorted. WHATEVER YOU DO DO NOT DO SOMETHING CRAZY!!! She’s not worth it!! Seriously!! My friend CUT herself and it has the biggest affect on the people around you so don’t even think about doing it please I beg. She could be bi polar or a MASSIVE attentionseeking bitch.
She is soooo horrible and not even worth you asking this question. Please stay safe hun and keep away from her.
your not stupid!! how old are you hun? dont kill yourself over this little bitch! she is just using you, she thinks she owns you and uses u as her back up friend, she is probably nicer to you when your alone right? dont put up with it, find new friends, if she is nasty to you then walk away or dont text her back, but then she might bully you.. its such a difficult position, i get that you dont want to upset your mum, so maybe you could talk to a counseller at school? this girl wants you to be her little puppy dog and she can tell you what to do who to talk to its like an abusive partner! its hard because your at school every day with this girl you cant just cut her out coz ull see her the next day, maybe make yourself unavailable to her like go and talk to another friend and gradually stop being her friend. if you dont text her, and you said she doesnt start conversations, dont start one with her! sit near her and text someone else! i dont know how to not make her mad and bully you though, school bitches are so mean. can you change schools?